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    Is it Haram to have a b/f ????

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    Is it Haram to have a b/f ????

    Post  Rasoherina on Sun Dec 28, 2008 3:56 pm

    I got a quick question, and it come to you as silly one but I'm going to take my chances on this one, cause I need an answer to help decide on various things. Here it goes,

    Is it haram to have a boyfriend, even though there is no kissing, or any other sexual activities present when you're together. Neutral

    I need an answer ASAP(P)...
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    Re: Is it Haram to have a b/f ????

    Post  Dudette on Sun Dec 28, 2008 4:13 pm

    YES! Pee'Ri'Yood.

    Despite of your disciplined sexual contacts, you're not permitted to be with a man in the same room, let alone become friends with him. If you're interested in him, than why hesitate to get married with him? Its either get married, or get lost. Boyfriend/Girlfriend terms are made by the gaalo, to avoid the halal marriage, its an easy way to f*ck a girl and leave her whenever you please, without strings attached. I know, its harsh but it is the truth sweetie.

    So, YES its haram. Smile
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    Post  balaayo on Mon Dec 29, 2008 3:08 am

    dudette su'aal, where does the term 'SHUKAANSI' come from??? and what does it mean to you?, make that labo su'aal.

    having a boyfriend/girlfiend is xaram however dadku way shekaystaan i mean you can't just marry someone you've never spoken to or got to know there dabeecad marka it all depends on how you do it. you can meet with the other sex for the sake of allah and if all goes wel you can talk about mariege but i just agree with the fact that if your intrested in the guy you should just marry him not knowing sh*t about the guy, for all you could know the dude might be a serial killer lol.

    bottom line, the terms boyfriend/girlfriend is xaram in islam so you better start calling him husband lol.
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    Post  Dudette on Mon Dec 29, 2008 9:00 pm

    lmao@ balaayo

    Aniga I'm not fond of calaacal, so I narrowed it down for her nooh.
    Anyways Shukaansi has various of meanings, depending what your class status is ...
    ciyaalka xaafada would consider shukaansi as "in the back alley somali-kissing" something that might lead to one night stand whereas a grown folks w/ class, consider that as just talking about your interest in the other person, something that would later lead to marriage ... Ka'biish?

    As for where it came from, how the hell do I know? scratch
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    Post  Sarai on Fri Jan 02, 2009 2:34 am

    lOl Duddete, you're harsh.

    Boy friend and boyfriend is totally defined differently.
    Boy friend, no romantic involvement
    Boyfriend, has romantic involvement
    Now, he can be your boy friend and omit the
    boyfriend to husband
    Perfect Solution, dont you think? Wink
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    Post  Rasoherina on Sun Jan 04, 2009 1:12 am

    Sara that is a perfect solution, i totally agree with you. I sense, you're must be good in math. Smile
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    Post  balaayo on Sun Jan 04, 2009 4:43 am

    Dudette wrote:lmao@ balaayo

    Aniga I'm not fond of calaacal, so I narrowed it down for her nooh.
    Anyways Shukaansi has various of meanings, depending what your class status is ...
    ciyaalka xaafada would consider shukaansi as "in the back alley somali-kissing" something that might lead to one night stand whereas a grown folks w/ class, consider that as just talking about your interest in the other person, something that would later lead to marriage ... Ka'biish?

    As for where it came from, how the hell do I know? scratch

    lol@somali-kissing, aqas!, and you can't even answer 2 simple questions lol, your somaliforumz homework is to find out meshay ka timid "SHUKAANSI"

    PS. its "KAPECHE" not whateva you wrote tongue tongue

    sarai what on earth are you talking about?? care to elaborate?
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    Post  Sarai on Sun Jan 04, 2009 8:26 am

    Not sure what I said needs any elaboration, since its self explanatory. I thought by using the colors it would be graphic to those who are deficient in common sense … Smile


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    Post  Dudette on Sun Jan 04, 2009 10:57 am

    I believe I answered one of the question, and the second one was just to wide for me to answer it. lol
    Its Kabiish, besides I can spell it however I please, dammit.

    Sarai, lmao
    Why don't you tell her to commit suicide?
    Dhoci'sha cannot omit boyfriend to husband, its against her will. (i promise i am keeding) geek


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    Post  balaayo on Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:12 am

    lol sarai maku fahmin, is that a crime?? if so let me know and i'll be sure to agree with all the jibrish you speak.

    dudette me commit suicide?? horteey.
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    Post  Sarai on Mon Jan 05, 2009 9:18 am

    ^^ What are you on about, hun?

    Dudette, lool.
    I was trying to help the child, something a bit different then your approach of 'lending a hand' ... lol


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    Post  Ella on Mon Jan 05, 2009 11:06 am

    Like tii waalneed (Beyonce) said ; "If you liked it then he should have put a ring on it" or in this case nikaah on it.

    Don't settle for anything less! Smile
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    Post  balaayo on Wed Jan 07, 2009 4:22 am

    lol@hun, thats kayuut.

    ps. ella thats what she say.
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    Post  Ella on Wed Jan 07, 2009 3:54 pm

    ^ Huh? What did you say duqa?
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    Post  balaayo on Thu Jan 08, 2009 7:08 am

    duqa?? lol wallahi this site has too many confused folks.
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    Post  Ella on Thu Jan 08, 2009 6:34 pm

    ^ It aint my fault you come across as nin ee uu dhamaatay. Laughing
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    Post  Dudette on Thu Jan 08, 2009 6:45 pm

    Lmao@ Ella ...
    Its cute when you're rude and harsh towards useless inhabitants, I kid (maybe not). Balaayo, is just misunderstood, and she's sometimes confused for a transsexual due to her hairy bosom. Laughing


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    Post  McSteamy on Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:06 am

    Yes its a no no
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    Post  Tuke-Waloo on Fri Jan 09, 2009 4:17 pm

    U should be publically whipped for asking such tasteless questions.
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    Post  balaayo on Sat Jan 10, 2009 7:56 am

    lol ella maybe if you payed more attention than a blonde bimbo(which i seriously think u are) you would've known am naag oo lakiin xaninyo leh loool which explains why i come across as a nin. dameerad ish!


    dudette wouldnt you love to put your hairy arm in my hairy bosom. lol
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    Post  Ella on Sun Jan 11, 2009 12:45 pm

    lol@Dudette. Balaayadan xagee ka heshay? There's seriously something wrong with this 'thing' I think having a hairy bosom is the least of 'its' problem. Laughing


    Balaayo,

    I'd rather be a bimbo than to be mistaken for a habar alaab ku taalo ( yeah, you heard!) No wonder you call yourself 'balaayo' waad isku dhex yaacday lol - Go figure out what you are, markaas ii so noqo, mafahamtay! Laughing
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    Post  balaayo on Tue Jan 13, 2009 7:37 am

    ella, nacas ba tahay kawaran hee.


    ps. am naag. lol
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    Post  Ella on Sat Jan 17, 2009 11:09 pm

    lol,naagyahay lugaha qaloocan meel joog baan ku dhahay..
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    Post  balaayo on Sun Jan 18, 2009 12:18 am

    ^^wax is waydiis ma xume lugahayga inte ku aragtay washenziyad yahay lol perve!
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    Post  Dudette on Sun Jan 18, 2009 2:46 pm

    Ella & Balaayo, lol
    Y'll sound like Tom & Jerry, get a grip on yourselves (in every sense of the word) ...


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